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A friend reminded me during a recent conversation of something I once did, and had forgotten about, that had her and her boyfriend (now amazing husband) cracking up and spreading the tale.

While stationed in Kuwait, I had a boyfriend who cheated on me. He accidentally butt dialed me. I got to hear him hitting on another woman and trying to hook up with her (cheating in my book). When I was done listening and hung up, I didn't go into a rage. I didn't go into shock. I sat back for a few minutes to process everything.

Next, I packed up his stuff in boxes and trash bags and marked them with his name. I then proceeded to drive around base and picked 3 different dumpsters to toss his shit in.

Then, I called a mutual friend who I'd heard in the background and briefly explained the conversation I heard. He laughed and asked me what I did or was going to do to him. What can I say, he knows me well!

I told him that ex needed to go fish his shit out of dumpsters around base and I didn't tell him which ones.

He went to pass on the message. Rumor got back to me that the ex spent the night with a couple of buddies with flashlights crawling around in dumpsters. Kuwait is about 110 at nighttime in the summer. And since it's surrounded by water, it's also VERY humid.

Your turn! The only rules are that it has to be harmless and it has to be hysterical payback.
I took treasure hunting to a whole other level! 😁🤣

[This message edited by StillLivin at 6:09 AM, Friday, September 19th]

I peed on the seat of my xWH's favorite chair. I figured that was fair, since he had boinked another woman on the back seat of my brand-new Jeep.

I got nothing....😮

A good friend of mine found out she inadvertently married her HS sweetheart AKA Mr Serial Cheater.

It was bad. Children out of wedlock she never knew about, fiancée at Dday existed (of the CH) and who knows how many women were his side pieces.

All his colleagues knew, the neighbors knew, his friends knew - everyone but the wife and her friends and family.

I referred her to a top notch shark of a D attorney.

She got everything she asked for. How? Well apparently it was against company rules to have relationships with co-workers and/or subordinates. So his pension and job were on the line.

They D. He married the young and dumb fiancée (she was young and naive to say the least). They had a kid.

One day the now wife (second W) calls my friend and starts bawling in the phone that she thinks her H (my friend’s XH) is cheating on her. He’s never home and she has the baby pretty much solo etc.

My friend very calmly said to the 2W "what did you expect? That he was going to be faithful to you?"

She (the XW) told her in less than a minute that she (the 2W) was lied to and he cheated their entire marriage and please don’t ever call here again. And then she hung up.

That was her revenge - letting the 2W know she’s been lied to for years.

I kinda felt sorry for the 2W as she was victimized by this serial cheating H. She was much younger and not from the same state and really didn’t know his friends — only the slimeballs that were willing to keep secrets. IMO she was just young and dumb.

[This message edited by The1stWife at 6:06 AM, Sunday, September 21st]

WS likes to bbq and smoke meats, and he has this metal cylinder that he uses to prep the coals. A few days after dday, I was home alone and full of rage, so I took some lingerie that was a wedding gift and a few wedding photos, stuffed them into this charcoal thing (outside) and lit it on fire. I didn't realize that polyester doesn't really burn, it just kind of melts, so I accidentally ruined his charcoal thing. I was not sorry.

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